I RECALL a Tory council leader who, ousted from an eternity in power, was most upset that his incoming rival did not wish to be shown the ropes nor consult with him about how best to get things done.

Some, but not all, of that presumption is a thing of the past, certainly among the rising generations.

Many recognise the inequalities in society and do look to resolve its problems but many of the divisions, the lack of a level playing field still come from those born-to-rule, we-know-better-than-thou (and want it all to stay that way) attitudes that are the bricks and mortar of the blue wall.

This culture needs to change, these divisions need to go and be replaced by a consensus, an agreed way ahead based, in Sir Ed Davey’s words, on compassion, opportunity and fairness. It is hugely important that it doesn’t become the levelling down that can sometimes characterise the leftier-than-thou brigade.

Despite persistent silly slurs, the Lib Dems have put the coalition behind them. We have come to terms with Cameron-induced, Johnson-delivered Brexit chaos. The past is a different country. Today, we deal with the world as it is.

We are good at understanding the gripes, groans, needs and expectations. Given the opportunity, we are good at addressing them, too. So, well done the team in the complex world of Bournemouth, Christchurch and Poole; very well done to come out as the largest single party by miles. A year to go for the rest of Dorset and the real fun of a general election!

Blessedly, we have all been able to put the politics aside for a couple of days and celebrate the coronation of our new king and queen.

If ever there was an institution providing stability, continuity and a force for good, it is the monarchy as we now have it: leading by example, thinking deeply about key issues, using influence not power, looking for and supporting the best in people and communities.

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What a strong message for the world of politics. Let us have less partisanship and contention, less of government by an amorphous “centre”, be it local or national. Let us have more exemplary behaviour, more positive action to make our lives happier and healthier.

We can play our part, too. We all have scope for being better citizens: drop less litter, drive more considerately, use social media with more courtesy. There are any number of things we could do to make the lives of others around us that little bit happier.

There is plenty of scope, too, for taking active steps: join a litter-pick, become a school reading helper, join the Royal Voluntary Service as a community volunteer.

In the week of the Coronation, The Big Help Out is being launched. Go to thebighelpout.org.uk and see the range of possibilities.